Embrace All The Good In Life And Stick With It

Perhaps it is not our daily habit to wish others well. Perhaps we are also not used to embracing the good things and the good people in our environment on a daily basis .

The predominant thought is: others do good, but no one is as good as myself. This is what we prefer to think about ourselves: that we always wish good for others.

But we don’t see noble, pure and selfless wishes every day. People tend to wish the best for themselves and for the people closest to them. Why is it so difficult to express these thoughts and wishes to everyone in the same way? Wouldn’t that be the right attitude?

Yet we must realize that our actions, words and behavior have consequences. What we wish for others also has consequences.

A wish is the visualization of your motives and desire to act. If you want good things to happen to someone, you do your best to make it happen. Moreover, you will do this with conviction, because you really feel it that way.

Wishing well will enrich you as a person at the same time. It costs nothing, but it has major consequences. It changes your thoughts and your mood. It will also make the many worries and negative focus disappear.

We encourage you to think about this.

Good will and positive thinking

The classic idea “what goes around comes around” or “whoever bounces the ball can expect it back” is partly based on reality. We certainly do not interpret this idea deterministically. Rather, it means that every act has consequences.

By stimulating your positive thoughts on a daily basis, you also promote your health. That does not mean that you talk about spiritual matters or that you are friendly everywhere. Rather, positive thinking is a reflection of how you approach life on a religious and spiritual level.

• Positive thinking means focusing on the grateful things in your life. If you want good things to happen to your family and friends, show them that you love them and take care of their well-being.
• But the real problem comes when you wish the worst for someone you don’t like. Why are you doing this? What do you gain with this? Whoever takes pleasure in criticizing people who have different values ​​from his own is behaving really immature.

• Just think of the different stages of moral development in children, as described by Lawrence Kohlberg. A child of six or seven years old has only one moral code. The people I like deserve the best. The people I don’t like should be punished.

This approach is neither constructive nor socially adapted. You are not obligated to get along with everyone, but not getting along with someone does not mean wishing that person failure and misfortune. It is better to wish them well on their personal journey. At the same time, you follow your own path, hoping that your paths will not cross, but you continue to wish everyone the best.

What you do, think and wish always returns to you, also the good

Some call this the law of causality. Others speak of the boomerang effect. We can translate these terms into something that is easy to understand.

• Your thoughts and actions always have consequences. One word spoken at the wrong time can make someone you like leave.
• Wishing for something bad to happen to another person can cause others to leave you in the long run. They hate you, they feel uncomfortable with you because of your ill-wishers. They gossip about you when you were a sanctuary for them before.

• Everything you say, do or wish leaves a mark on your environment. So don’t forget to think about the effect of your words before you say them.

Think about the consequences before you act. But above all… wish the people around you good things. You can compare it to planting noble seeds that will enrich you as a person.

You are free to create your own future

Buddha taught us this. If you want to know your present, look at your past, for the present is the result of the past. But if you want to know your future, look to your present, for there you will find the cause.

• This idea translates into something that is both simple and wise: you are the free actor and the architect of your own reality. Everything you do has consequences. That way you shape your future little by little.
• Only by wishing the best for those around you will you shape your feelings and your understanding of life.

This approach is based on the idea of ​​reciprocity and recognition of the others. It opens your mind and nourishes your heart. On the other hand, the person who creates an environment full of positivity and empathy will become emotionally richer himself. This will allow you to build a hopeful and positive future for all.

This is very valuable to remember.